I have come to a fork in the road in my highway of life. A while ago, my old girlfriend, the one that was in the car accident, became really... Should I say, bitchy. She just seemed to get real mad for no reason at all, and said it was my fault. No this is not that time of the month, it would be almost all the time. So I said to her; "Well I have had enough, it's over." So we went our seperate ways. Now she has a new boyfriend(shocking, yea right) and now I've stayed singel. Well there is a new girl at the club(Boys &Girls Club) I havent seen here around before, but I know her last name, her sister is know to sleep around. She's not like that at all. Though, she's 12, she is a seventh grader and her birthday is in March. THough she looks to be in 9th grade, and acts years behond her age. Well now I'm in 10th grade, and I'm 15, so there's a three year difference. Now most guys would just say no to "going out with her" though she's a really nice girl, and she acts polite. I've heard of guys being harassed for dating girls in the middle school. Though I wouldn't care, if someone has a problem with it, then they can come talk to me, I really don't care what anybody says about me, but if they start saying stuff about her, or any of my friends, then it's personal. So I just ask for your point-of-view, what would you do if you were me? Would you ask her out? Or just say no she's to young? Just asking, not saying this will affect my choice, I would just like opinions. Thanks.
-Oz

I Believe:
There is no such thing as an "Over-Protective" mother...
Mothers were created to have that nature in them... They are supposed to protect their kids.
What is a mother supposed to think when she doesn't hear from her kid and if she goes out to look for her, "not saying that she did in this case" and doesn't find her were she is supposed to be at...natural reaction to a Situation like this would be to Worry for a Mother...
I second the Trust issue also, If you are going to date, Tell the parents were you are going and tell them what you are doing... That leaves no room for things like the above stated Problem

Last edited: Tuesday, June 21, 2005 at 11:41:10 AM

@Freedom- You're right, there is no such thing. Moms just are what they are. Good thing, too.

Ozzy, I don't know if anyone has said this yet, but I think that evil Mercedes girl wants you, and that is the reason for her actions.

@dateman
Don't flame anyone about their names, because first of all he changes his name all the time, and second of all you can't even think of a name!

LOL - I wasn't "flaming" him about his name - It's just nice to actually be able to refer to someone somehow.

??? - I do have a name - ???

Calm down Jimmy, here's a biscuit.

Oh look! Looks like a village is missing there idi....calendar! -Hi DateMan!

Ozzy, when you're 18, she's going to be 15. Stop it now before you end up on Dr.Phil.

Last edited: Tuesday, June 21, 2005 at 4:56:08 PM

Hey man age difference dosent count a 5 year old fell in love with a 12 year old their practicly 7 yrs apart man!a six grader and a kinder garden man!

Appleyard, that really doesn't effect a relationship as far as I'm concerned. If there is a large age difference at a younger age, it will most probably effect the relationship in a negative way, but sometime's these things work out, especially when the younger one acts a bit above their 'peers'. One of my friends met a 19 year old guy a while back, and they've been dating happily for almost 3 years.
EDIT: Forgot to mention, she's four years younger than him.

Last edited: Wednesday, June 22, 2005 at 10:59:33 AM

Actually appleyard, it looks like a village is missing their english teacher.

Last edited: Wednesday, June 22, 2005 at 1:20:09 PM

You missed my point PIP. Assuming they will still be going on together 3 years from now, Ozzy will be classified as an adult when she will still be classified as a minor, and that will continue to overlap for 3 more years after Ozzy has turned 18. Which in its self can create alot of problems... Especially if Ozzy ever did anything stupid, and a legal issue was brought to the table.

15-12 = 3.

Well what can I say? You guys are covering every bit of this topic, lol even Phil!!!!! I like reading your post people, it's really helpin' out here. Were still together, not much talking, she's at camp untill Friday, so I still have time to think about it, though at the club, no one thinks of it as a big deal, I mostly just care what my true peers think. THough I have found my self working out and a lot of other things. In a couple of months, the guy taht "did" mercedes will be returning from being sent away to Omaha. He will be strong as all the guys I know that go down there and come back are. Yea he was the one APril accidentally ratted on. SO I will have to protect her when he comes back, even if we aren't going out, casue he will be mad, I know it. Though, he is freinds with a lot of my other friends, the ones that don't go to the club and are older than 16. So I will see what happens, but I know if he hits here, most of them will be mad, becasue there is no right, what so ever to hit a girl. That is our beliefe and we stick to it. Well I gotta go, see yall later!

Alright Appleyard, I'll do it your way. She met him when she was 15. He was 19 at the time. He was legal, she wasn't. Things have worked out perfectly. This is not to say that all of these kinds of relationships will come out perfectly, but I'm trying to tell Ozzy that there is a good chance that even if he does do this, theres a great chance it will.

Last edited: Wednesday, June 22, 2005 at 4:45:13 PM

Hey Ozzy,
age matters not
my aunt and uncle are 10 years apart