Some of you may know that my maternal grandfather passed away last week, some may not.

Last Saturday he slipped into a light coma. He could hear and understand what was said to him, but was unable to articulate a response (though he tried). After some personal debate, I decided to drive down to see him Monday and I'm so glad I did. Within 20 minutes of my arrival at his home, he passed away.

A few of us there gathered around him. While my mother stoked his hair, I put one hand on his thigh and another on his forearm. Two cousins stood close by while an aunt and friend were in the kitchen. We all tried to comfort him and encourage him to pass on. As many of you know, I believe he had heaven to gain and a reunion with those who went before him. We shared our hearts and tears with him, then with one another. It was a touching time.

I was so blessed to be there. I had never been part of someone's passing into eternity and while some may believe it is something to be avoided, it was very bitter-sweet and good for me as a person. I'm sure papaw appreciated it as well and I like to think he was holding on for me. It was great to be there. It was a wonderful, sad, joyful and tragic occasion.

I was sorry to hear about your grandfather's passing Rabban. Though I am glad you were able to be there with him during his final moments. It would have been something you regretted for some time if you weren't there.

Though I don't subscribe to religion myself, I can understand how appreciative you must have felt to have faith in your life during that time. It was certainly a time to draw on that faith. Your grandpas now in a better place than this earth.

My sincere condolences rabban.

My condolences as well. It glad you had the opportunity to be with him. I'm sure that having his family around meant a lot.

My condolences Rabban
and our prayers
Roo

Our Prayers and thoughts are with you and yours...And he is gong to a much better place....God Bless....And Take care

My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.

Rabben I feel so bad for you. I know what it feels like to lose a close family member. I have posted a fourm on my lose also so if it would make you feel better you can read it. I feel so sorry for you, may God shine his eternal peace upon you and your family.

My heart goes out to you my friend :(

Sorry about the loss you and your family has gone through recently...Take care my friend and God Bless

Sincerely,
Freedom

Thanks for sharing the story Rabban. Keeping you in my thoughts and hope that you are taking some time for yourself to heal. Here's a dozen roses for you....imagine they are white....

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Rabby

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