^ someone dies in your family I feel sad and wished it never happened, Novemeber 19th 2005 Cousin 18 Was Speeding At A 160 Km/H And Died... We Kept On Telling Him Dont {(*SPEED*)} But You Know What He Did So Right Now Im Not In A Happy Mood Please Post How You Feel,, And Stuff That Could Maybe Ch33r Me Up! :)

I'd Apprecicate It,

"The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer someone else up."
-Mark Twain
I'm all happy from typing that! Lol.
Sorry about your cousin... :[ :'(

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It is very depressing......my grandfather also past on November 12th.....things may be different......but u gotta remember the good things about them in life.......at least u have memories of them.....they wouldnt want u crying and beating urself up for things tat happen.....they would tell u to be happy and live life to the fullest

Man, that really stinks. Sorry for your loss.

I had two cousins who were about the same age as me. One was born in August, and the other was born in February. I was born in October, between those two. I had the fun of being able to hang out with my cousins, who were almost like having brothers the same age.

I lost my younger cousin when we were 15. He died in a car wreck. Nobody knows just what happened. His older brother was driving. We almost lost both of them.

My older cousin died when we were about 32. He died from the damage his drug problems caused him. I'm the only one of us left. I still remember them almost every day.

How did it make me feel? First I couldn't really believe they were gone. Then I was mad, then sad, then I realized that I had to deal with their deaths. (one at a time) Eventually I was able to think about the good, and not dwell on how suddenly they died. Before that, I was pretty sad about their deaths.

Now I still remember the fun times we had, how much we had done together. I miss them still, but I know they wouldn't want me to be messed up by their deaths. They were good guys. I've continued my life, but also keep their memory and still enjoy the fun we had.

Remember your cousin, and I hope the loss isn't too hard. If you find it really a lot, talk to somebody. It helps. Take care, ok?

It is our destany, no one can escape it, death is in our future. Death cannot be cheated, Death cannot be stopped, innevitably we all die sooner or later, it is our ultimate fate....

What we do with the time that is given to us, can determine our eternal path, lets just hope your Cuz was a born again Chrtistian, if so, then don't cry, Rejoice! For your Cuz is in a far happier place than this! Heaven is Ultimate victory, Victory over death itself, a place where not even Death can go, A place Where only life and Happiness reigns ;)

He may not be with you, but he will always be there by you, and protect you as best as possible, for now, all u can do is blieve, and hope B)

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@ All Thanks Your Posts Help! :)

In fifth grade, just two days after the entire grade had done a huge fundraiser for kids with cancer, my uncle died of liver cancer. All I can hope is that he was kind enough to get to heaven. See ^^.

Good posts all! Especially LGM and Caddy!

I lost both of my grandparents(mom's mommy and daddy) when I was about 15. I grew up with them in their family business. They were on there usual trip to Myrtle Beach SC and they were missing for over a month. My mom and dad said that maybe they wanted to just get away from everyone.

Well, over a month later I took a phone call from the SC state patrol from an officer Wilson (never will forget this moment) and he said that my granma and granpa were found toghtether on the road side. I thought they were ok, well I handed the phone over to my dad and indeed they died by going over a hillside and crashing into some trees.

I was totally devastaded. It affected me horribly for years. I got over it and now I know how precious life is and never forget who you love!! ;)