As some know I have a hubby that has gone astray, I moved out and moved back in..
thinking things would be ok I thought it would be alright to try to sit it out, So I moved into the spare bedroom, I was quickly informed by my so called husband that I was not welcome to stay and gave me until he came home that next morning to be out of the house...(of course not telling me that he was moving her in) I argued and pleaded to let me stay but it had fell on deaf ears Sooooo I waited till he left and I did move out again
but this time I took everything I wiped out the house clean...Took the rv filled it up called several friends in St Augustine who came with pick ups 4 total...by the time we were done I left him 1 beer we drank the rest and no toilet paper to wipe his butt
I wiped the house out clean in less than 3 hours I have never in my life seen anyone move as fast as my friends did God Bless them they came at midnight to help and we were on our way about 3:30 in the morning we had to finish before he came home from work..
He called me that morning asking me if I had left and I said yea I'm gone (not mentioning that I took everything) he said good and hung up I guess he had not been home cause I had another phone call about 20 min later He was screaming and shouting calling me every name in the book..I laughed and said "does it hurt? Do you feel any pain? I want you to feel what it's like to have your life ripped apart have everything you ever cared about taken away from you I want you to feel my pain..I hung up, and the next day I went to see a lawyer,I really didn't know what my rights were but it was the best money I have ever spent I know what my rights are now.
Last Sun I decided to act on my rights and went back to the house, he was sleeping along with his girlfriend kid and cat and I had the police on the phone when I went into the house and said to the girlfriend get out of my house my name is on this deed this house belongs to me I looked at my husband and said you want her leave with her but you cannot throw me out of this house ( the dispatcher was still on the phone with me) I looked at her and told her to pack her things and go or I'll have the police remove her. Michael said you can't do this and I said ohh yes I can!!! I did try to keep things as calm as I could for the sake of the child but I did ask her what kind of mother are you to bring a child into a relationship where the guy is not divorced or even legaly seperated ( The Police dispatcher gasped when she heard there was a child) She didn't answer she got up and started packing begging me not to have the police come and I told her just as long as she was leaving she had no worries about that... Michael didn't have anything else to say and knew he screwed up, it was written all over his face so he just sat in a lawn chair ( no furniture) and stared into space..She packed everything and left for a hotel Michael stayed and I told the police to have a car in the area just in case and I hung up...I looked at him and told him I would bring everything back because I was coming home and there is nothing he can do about it....
And as far as I know she has not called or seen him since (I have my spies now) and as far as Michael is concerned he now feels my pain, I have filed for divorce and will move out when everything is divided..
Just to let you all know I loved my husband with my heart and soul and I still do I am sickened that this has all happened and I do wish I could turn back the hands of time and make it all right but I guess I will go it alone and start again...
I do want to say one thing for those of you who are married talk don't ever stop talking don't ever give up loving one another you were married for a reason always remember never forget keep the love alive don't get caught up on lifes hassels....

You did the right thing, and boy did it take some guts. It's good to know you have friends who will always help you 24/7. I'll be praying for you, and Michael. Thanks for letting us know, if theres anything we can do for you, just let us know

Sheena it is good to have you back.
I hope it means something when I say I am glad to know someone that shares the same values as me in a situation such as this.

I can't put my admiration and sympathy into words so I will have to cut short here.

Great to see you again.

I'm glad to be back seems like a lot has happened in such a short amount of time...know wonder my doctor has put me on meds... :P

Good luck with everything. You are a trooper, and I admire you! Good to see you again.

^ hi proud

Good god girl ,, you've been through some heavy stuff. I am glad to read how you handeled it, although I know that the pain is still there. In time it will heal itself as I'm sure you have heard a thousand times already. If theres anything I can do give me a shout. And If hubby somehow reads this.,,, "your a idiot pal" I'd like to see Sheena use your sack as a speedbag.

^thx I do know one thing I have a lot of caring people in my life so things will be ok

Well, to add my 2 cents, that took a lot to do what you did Sheena. It was certainly the right and just thing to do, and I know we're all proud of you and will support you in that action. The pain is certainly still there, but over time, it will lessen, and hopefully go away completely one day. :)

So for now, my advice is this: Sit in a comfy chair, hop on to a game of TT, and let your pain and anger vent into those bullets which will go straight into the side of Hugo's tent, er tank. XD

^ ROFLMAO! XD %) XD %) XD %) XD %) I agree. Anger management is a beutiful art, ain't it?

Anger management? :P What's that?...

Saw u before (I beat u in the 1 on1) it was fun and I am glad u have done what u have done. You got guts. I wouldn't do what u just did but I'm 11 so...

Good to have u back she. ;) :)

Great to see your back,I wish we talked more on tt I could of told you to just go to lawyer so you wouldn't of had to move everything out.You will be just fine.MAY THE BLESSINGS BE!!!!

Good on you girl, only played you the once and you whipped my ass, like most do, but its nice to know Michael's getting a whipping too, good luck to you my thoughts are with you

How does that saying go? Hell hath no fury....?
Well done, Sheena. It's one thing to have your heart broken but another thing to be taken advantage of. I'm sure everyone here is glad to have you back (make sure you get the computer with TT installed)

;)

You go girl!!

Best revenge I heard, was: the guy got the house, so the woman filled the curtain poles with prawns, the prawns started to rot and the house got stinkier and stinkier, the guy couldn't work out what it was, started replacing furniture and carpets and things, until it got to the point that he decided to sell the house because he couldn't stand the smell any longer, he got rock-bottom price because it stank so bad, so he ended up moving out, but the best part was... He took the curtain poles with him!

Give it a shot, tell us how it turns out.

Last edited: Thursday, July 27, 2006 at 12:06:14 PM

Wow Sheena, what a story! Sorry to hear you had to go through all this. Thanks for sharing. Be strong. You will get through this.

I have a little story I like to remember when things seem like they're not going well. Like most good stories, it takes place long ago:

An old man and his son live on a hillside a little ways outside of a village. One day, a wild horse wanders by and the son manages to catch it. The villagers hear of his feat and say "That's wonderful. You are so lucky."

The old man responds "How do you know?".

A couple of weeks pass. While trying to train the horse, the son falls off and breaks his leg. The villagers hear of this and offer sympathy. "How awful," they say. "That is very unfortunate."

"How do you know?" the old man responds.

Soon after a warlord and his army sweep through the village and press all of the young men into service for a terrible battle. Because he has a broken leg, the old man's son is not taken.

The point is that you never know what the results of any happening will be. Seeming good often turns out badly, and seeming bad often has a bright side. We all walk a path. Sometimes it doesn't take us in the direction we think it will.

It sounds to me like you've taken control of your life and in the end you will make this a positive change. A few years when you look back you'll see that what you thought was a negative was really the best thing that could have happened.

Good luck Sheena.

Thanks to all of you great to kow I have some good people out there....please lock this now just wanted to let ya'll know what was happining

As you wish!